Think Strong

Swami Vivekananda says

" A person who does not believes in God is not an Atheist.

But a person who does not believe in Himself is an Atheist.

Its a great sin to think yourself as Weak."

Here's to a Strong ME !!!!

Let GO !

Let GO ! If you really want something in life, please let GO of it. If it is meant to be yours, it'll come back to You !

Wow ! What a philosophy ! I think that the more attached we are towards people / things, it sure is going to cause a lot of pain. Because we want to love and be loved in our own way. By doing away with the possessiveness, we break the terms and conditions we attach to love. And when the person or the thing comes back to us, it is meant for us and will stay that way.

So, LET GO !!!!!

Contentment in relationships

Having found the real YOU is the first step towards happiness.
(Pl refer the post - Find your qualities)

It is not only the first step but also the biggest step in the journey towards happiness. As you explore your own qualities, which you didn't think you had in YOU, you become aware of your inner self more and more. You get to discover your ambiguities along with your positive spirit.

The hard challenge for you now, is to accept YOU as you have discovered yourself to be. Come to terms with your weaknesses and strengths. It is a difficult task and will take time, but take it slowly and get to know the real YOU.

What are relationships ? They are just like mirrors.
You show love and you get love back.
By showing anger, be sure to get it back.
Such a simple principle, isn't it ?

Once you achieve the inner peace by accepting your strengths and weaknesses, it is easy to pass on the peace process to all our relationships. The more you share this strong side of you, as you build on your strengths, you're encompassed in a sphere of love and positive spirit.

In other words, ACCEPTANCE BRINGS IN CONTENTMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

Find your qualities !!!

Who are you ? What are your qualities ? Are you kind, passionate, rude, selfish, generous, social .... ? What makes up the whole YOU ????

Here's a simple exercise to find out what kind of a person are you !!!!!!

1. First, think of a person whom you like / admire and aspire to be like them.
2. Identify those qualities of your role model, which has attracted you to that person.
3. Write down each and every quality in a separate piece of paper.
4. Put down all these in a bowl.

1. Second, think of a person whom you detest / not fond of / dislike - whatever.
2. Identify those qualities in that person, which has made you dislike him / her.
3. Write all those in a separate pieces of paper.
4. Put them all in a bowl.

Now, the qualities that are there in the bowl is YOU !!!!!

The things which you admire in your role model are those qualities in YOU, which you want to develop much further.

And those qualities which you dislike in a person are those things in YOU, which you don't want to surface or fighting a inner battle.

Now, you know what kind of a person YOU are !!!!!